You could have a good friend, possibly a past relationship or someone you’ve know for a long time in your life. There may have been some upset between you both. This situation can be resolved because there’s still a soft spot for them. There seems to be an unspoken issue that still exists. If you want things to work with them the issue needs to be resolved or the problem will surface again in the future.
If you do proceed and resolve the issue it could cause big problems with others around you. Your family or close friends may not understand your motives. Be practical because your an independent and hard working person who has strived to get the calmness you deserve. Tell the person how you really feel and what your fears are, then your giving them a chance to fix the problem. The family and friends may just worry about you and if your happy they will be happy for you.
At the end of the day it’s your decision but don’t go backwards. Xx